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The Very Definition of Love (The Bancroft Sisters)

4.2 out of 5 stars (196)

Instant USA TODAY Bestseller

Bridgerton meets Emily Henry in this fresh take on regency romance about a wallflower writing a dictionary of bawdy slang who arranges her own marriage to the ultimate instructor: the town rake.

“Sexy and witty . . . a clever regency romance that kept me giggling.” —Joss Richard, international bestselling author of
It’s Different This Time

1816—Harriet Bancroft doesn’t mind that she’s on her fifth season with no marriage prospects, it gives her more time to write her dictionary of modern slang. Words are her passion, especially the exciting, filthy ones men have kept hidden from women for far too long.

Enter the ultimate teacher . . .

When Harriet accidentally finds herself in a compromising situation with the notorious rake Lord Alexander, she has no choice but to 
sort of kidnap him and strong-arm him into an elopement. This arranged marriage has a very particular condition—it will be in-name-only, leaving each of them to follow their own interests. For Harriet that’s her work; for Alexander, that’s women.

But love has a different lesson in mind . . .

But soon Alexander’s rakish lifestyle is not nearly as fun as spending time with Harriet, and Harriet’s beginning to worry that she might actually like her husband. Behind the closed doors of their respectable home, things become a little . . . complicated. After all, who better teach her the very 
thorough meaning of these indecent words than the renowned lover, Lord Alexander Stirling? 

Perhaps this marriage will teach them both a little more about that word they’ve been avoiding—love.

Tropes: Enemies-to-lovers / Marriage of convenience / There’s only one bed / Yearning / A misunderstanding / He teaches her / Regency era / Rake x wallflower

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Can a rake define love?
She doesn't think so.

Liana De la Rosa calls this "a witty, sexy, and deliciously fun romp!"

Lauren Kung Jessen declares this "the very definition of a page-turner!"

This "clever regency romance" kept Joss Richard giggling!

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An Indie Next Pick

The Very Definition of Love is a witty, sexy, and deliciously fun romp! Historical romance readers will love Sophia Benoit’s charming debut!” —Liana De la Rosa, USA Today bestselling author of Ana María and The Fox

"Sophia Benoit’s
The Very Definition of Love is hot, heartfelt, and witty. This smart and sexy Regency romance is the very definition of a page-turner.” —Lauren Kung Jessen, author of The Fortune Flip

The Very Definition of Love is sexy and witty. Sophia Benoit wrote a clever Regency romance that kept me giggling.” —Joss Richard, international bestselling author of It’s Different This Time

The Very Definition of Love serves up endless pleasures: a bawdy romance, a good laugh, and a sneaky education in the Regency era’s filthiest slang. It’s heartfelt, sizzling, and witty, and the characters are so richly drawn, it’s easy to forget this is fiction. Sophia Benoit is unmatched!” —Hannah Orenstein, author of Maine Characters

“Wickedly nerdy and unapologetically hot, I challenge you to read The Very Definition of Love and not fall for Harriet and Alexander. Sophia Benoit is a sparkling new voice in romance!” —Ella Dawson, author of But How Are You, Really

“Sweet, funny, romantic, and sexy, I swooned, smiled, and sweated whilst devouring this book! Benoit has written a gem of a love story, and precisely what I need in all my historical romances. I cannot wait to read more of what she does!” —Bolu Babalola, international bestselling author of Honey and Spice

“[A] playful and sexy Regency debut. . . This should win Benoit plenty of fans.”
Publishers Weekly

"A very sexy, witty take on the classic Regency romance." Marie Claire

About the Author

Sophia Benoit is the author of Well, This Is Exhausting, writes regular columns in GQ and Bustle, and has written for WSJ, The Guardian, The Cut, Fatherly, Insider, Refinery29, Allure, PS, and more. Sophia doesn’t have an MFA from anywhere, and probably isn′t ever going to, much to the chagrin of her father. She is the host of the sex and relationships Ringer podcast None of My Business. Originally from St. Louis, she now lives in Los Angeles with her dog and her boyfriend (but usually only spouses make it into bios, so don’t worry about him).

Product details

  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B0FN39S46N
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Slowburn
  • Accessibility ‏ : ‎ Learn more
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ June 23, 2026
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 1.2 MB
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Not Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 438 pages
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1638933564
  • Page Flip ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Best Sellers Rank: #21,588 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store)
  • Customer Reviews:
    4.2 out of 5 stars (196)

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Sophia Benoit is a writer and comedian who grew up in Missouri and was correctly voted “Most Likely to Never Come Back.” She writes sex and relationship advice for GQ and has had bylines in Allure, Refinery29, The Cut, The Guardian, and more. She writes an advice newsletter Here’s The Thing where she tries to get everyone to ask their crush out. Sophia lives in Los Angeles with her boyfriend Dave, but usually only spouses make it into author bios, so forget about him.

Customer reviews

4.2 out of 5 stars
196 global ratings
Witty, Romantic, and Full of Heart!
5 out of 5 stars
Witty, Romantic, and Full of Heart!
* Thank you Sophia & @zandoprojects for the ARC! A Regency romance about a wallflower destined to spinsterhood who is fascinated by words, especially those of the bawdy variety? That was honestly all that I needed to know before picking this one up! And it is as fantastic as that sounds, plus a lot more! I positively ADORED Harriet. She was an innocent, but extremely curious and someone I could relate to on the "fascinated by words" front to a serious degree (not kidding, I used to enjoy reading the dictionary as a kid, and still look up the etymology of words daily, haha!). She also talks a lot, sharing the things she learns, which made my husband smirk when I told him.... Besides that, she was just such a delight, with her curiosity and courage to grow. Alexander was also a truly wonderful character. He is the "spare" to a sick heir of his father's dukedom, and — due to a childhood being let down by his parents — he has no interest in romantic entanglements. He considers himself a rake and an eternal bachelor, but he is so much more. The romance... Oh, the romance! Swoonworthy, and delicious. From the beginning, both Harriet and Alexander are inexplicably curious about one another, but not interested in any kind of romance. This makes their dynamic, and the fact that they wind up having to elope after one brief meeting, just a lot of fun. There are elements of "sexy lessons" here, as Harriet's curiosity gets the better of her and Alexander's restraint is tested. The tension brought on by this is perfection, and it makes for some very amusing situations! The supporting characters are also delightful and round everything out well! I don't know if Sophia Benoit plans to expand on this universe, but I would LOVE a book with Harriet's sisters and Giulianna (and perhaps a dance instructor? 😉). This is getting quite long, but I would be remiss if I didn't also mention the HEART of this book, and the WORDS. I loved the way this was written, in every sense. Also, there is a bit of a dictionary in the back, which is just *chef's kiss*
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  • 5 out of 5 stars
    A Must Read - Wallflower x Rake Story
    Reviewed in the United States on June 30, 2026
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    Give me a Wallflower who scandalizes a rake any day!

    Ms. Sophia Benoit, I loved this story. It was funny, clever, and a unique twist on the marriage of convenience trope.

    This story follows two unlikely individuals, the invisible Bancroft sister Harriet and the irresistible rake Lord Alexander. After being caught in a comprising situation, Harriet takes matters into her own hands.

    Harriet may be a Wallflower but in no way is that who she is. She is a bold and deeply curious woman who gets excited to learn new words, the more scandalous word the better. In her pursuit to recall words she overhead, she is confronted with Lord Alexander.

    Lord Alexander is a rake, a man who will not be tied down by the mamas of the ton and stays clear of innocent single women. That is until he meets Harriet and he gets to know her. Something about Harriet and her joy for vulgar words and her seemingly disinterest in him, entices Lord Alexander.

    I wholeheartedly would recommend this story to others. This is a wonderful debut book into this genre.

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  • 4 out of 5 stars
    Whitty historical romance
    Reviewed in the United States on July 18, 2026
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    The Very Definition of Love by Sophia Benoit completely won me over. This book has everything I love in a historical romance—witty banter, memorable characters, sizzling chemistry, and so much heart.

    Harriet is a wonderfully intelligent and refreshing heroine, and watching her relationship with Alexander develop was equal parts hilarious, tender, and swoon-worthy. Their chemistry felt natural, and the romance unfolded at just the right pace. I found myself smiling, laughing, and eagerly turning the pages to see what would happen next.

    The unique premise and clever humor made this story stand out from other Regency romances, while the emotional moments gave the romance real depth. It was the perfect blend of funny, romantic, and heartfelt.

    If you’re a fan of historical romance with sharp dialogue, lovable characters, and plenty of charm, The Very Definition of Love is an absolute must-read. I thoroughly enjoyed every minute of it and can’t wait to read more from Sophia Benoit!

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  • 5 out of 5 stars
    Just read this already
    Reviewed in the United States on June 26, 2026
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    I read a lot of historical romance. Lisa Kleypas is my queen, but I’ve read her entire back catalogue and I’ve been searching for someone new. And I’ve been dabbling in all these cute cartoon covers, and most have left me flat. Not this author! This is absolutely adorable. Harriet and Alexander are perfect and instantly he’s down BAD for her. Loved it!

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  • 4 out of 5 stars
    If you’re a fan of Bridgerton and the creative use of words? Look no further!
    Reviewed in the United States on July 19, 2026
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    “I never take a man’s side if I can help it.”

    As a huge fan of the Bridgerton series, I was drawn to the blurb for The Very Definition of Love by Sophia Benoit almost immediately.

    What to expect:

    Sharp and witty wallflower FMC

    A sinfully charming rake

    Marriage of convenience

    Delectable banter

    Slow burn

    Kick your feet swooning

    Only one bed

    Right from the start, I was intrigued by the FMC, Harriet Bancroft. A book loving wallflower with an endless thirst for taboo knowledge? A woman after my own heart! In contrast, Lord Alexander Stirling is a man whose entire life is based in the taboo, and his rakish ways and charming personality set the tone for a very entertaining “reluctant allies” situation.

    One of my favorite things about this read was the banter between Harriet and Lord Alexander Stirling. Each interaction left me craving more. They have a very believable chemistry that flows naturally on paper. While they are incredibly different characters, they complimented each other brilliantly and I was fully invested in their growth as the story progressed.

    A major plot of the book is Harriet’s obsession with discovering the meaning of lewd and taboo words for a dictionary that she is helping someone compose under the pretense that she will be receiving a portion of the proceeds. I have never been so entertained in my life! Harriet’s thirst for knowledge, and Lord Stirling’s moral struggle to contribute to her well of knowledge made me giggle and kick my feet on several occasions. I have learned so many new words that I plan to incorporate into my daily vernacular! Honestly, I do not know why we stopped using half of them.

    This is a medium-paced read that could easily be read in a 48 hour period. It’s easy to follow, the plot is well planned and executed, and I found myself extremely invested in the remaining Bancroft sisters.

    If you are a fan of Regency romance and the Bridgerton series, I think this would be a fantastic book to add to your TBR pile

    If you’re a fan of Bridgerton and the creative use of words? Look no further!

    “I never take a man’s side if I can help it.”

    As a huge fan of the Bridgerton series, I was drawn to the blurb for The Very Definition of Love by Sophia Benoit almost immediately.

    What to expect:

    Sharp and witty wallflower FMC

    A sinfully charming rake

    Marriage of convenience

    Delectable banter

    Slow burn

    Kick your feet swooning

    Only one bed

    Right from the start, I was intrigued by the FMC, Harriet Bancroft. A book loving wallflower with an endless thirst for taboo knowledge? A woman after my own heart! In contrast, Lord Alexander Stirling is a man whose entire life is based in the taboo, and his rakish ways and charming personality set the tone for a very entertaining “reluctant allies” situation.

    One of my favorite things about this read was the banter between Harriet and Lord Alexander Stirling. Each interaction left me craving more. They have a very believable chemistry that flows naturally on paper. While they are incredibly different characters, they complimented each other brilliantly and I was fully invested in their growth as the story progressed.

    A major plot of the book is Harriet’s obsession with discovering the meaning of lewd and taboo words for a dictionary that she is helping someone compose under the pretense that she will be receiving a portion of the proceeds. I have never been so entertained in my life! Harriet’s thirst for knowledge, and Lord Stirling’s moral struggle to contribute to her well of knowledge made me giggle and kick my feet on several occasions. I have learned so many new words that I plan to incorporate into my daily vernacular! Honestly, I do not know why we stopped using half of them.

    This is a medium-paced read that could easily be read in a 48 hour period. It’s easy to follow, the plot is well planned and executed, and I found myself extremely invested in the remaining Bancroft sisters.

    If you are a fan of Regency romance and the Bridgerton series, I think this would be a fantastic book to add to your TBR pile

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  • 5 out of 5 stars
    Delicious
    Reviewed in the United States on July 1, 2026
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    Witty, with great dialog and delicious yearning! Couldn’t put it down!

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  • 5 out of 5 stars
    Rake v Wallflower with a little light kidnapping
    Reviewed in the United States on June 24, 2026
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    We love a rake/wallflower where he claims no interest and yet his world is rocked when he offers his attentions and she's all, "No thank you." Harriet is discovered alone with a rake at a ball, and instead of offering for her to save her from social ruin he just...doesn't. So she does the only reasonable thing, and kidnaps him and takes him to Gretna Green for an elopement. He tries some flirting and light seduction, she sees right through him and labels his attempts as such.

    Meanwhile, he sure is sending some mixed messages! He takes pains to tell her that he'll continue to rake it up (and in fact she kidnaps him from his mistress's house). But also after their wedding "Some tiny, jealous part of him liked her having it on. A ring that signified that she was his." Benoit does some great stuff here with Harriet acknowledging that he's such a practiced flirt that any specialness she's feeling must be an illusion, and any moment she savors (a kiss, intimacy) is such a habit with him that it must mean nothing. Meanwhile he's out here all thinking of her and wondering why his chest hurts.

    Benoit writes delicious light and breezy banter along the lines of a Tessa Dare or Alexandra Vasti. Some of her emotional beats hit perfectly, especially around Alexander offering protection and aid to another character he never offered Harriet. Benoit has a lot of great ideas and themes and scenes to explore with this book, and gives herself a lot of runway to carry them off. For someone who is so experienced with the ladies, he seems very clueless about how his actions might be perceived. And for someone who is repeatedly described in the book as a master communicator and persuader, Harriet leaves a lot of vital information unsaid. Their misperceptions and miscommunications test a reader's patience.

    I felt there were a few dropped threads and and shifts in the in-book canon, like a character asserts one thing and then acts the opposite (Alexander is clear he wants a marriage in name only, later "Don't be absurd! Of course I intend to bed my wife.") Some things just didn't make sense, Alexander says he's getting respectability out of this marriage for Romance Business Reasons, but then at the first ball they attend together he's dancing and flirting with other women. This is highlighted so much as it happens, and referred to by Harriet so much as painful I thought it would come up between them, but it's never mentioned. I kept waiting for it to come up as part of the Low Moment or whatever. I found some of the tonal shifts took me out of the mood of the book. Alexander and Harriet go from yearning and despair to joking, from swearing off contact and closeness to flirting and intimacy. At one point my kindle note is "This whole thing is illogical" and I just had to roll with it.

    I had fun reading this, and I would love to see what Benoit comes up with next (after all there are still two sisters left)!

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  • 4 out of 5 stars
    Delightful!
    Reviewed in the United States on July 11, 2026
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    The Very Definition of Love

    4⭐️ 2.5🌶️

    Regency romance was my first love of romance and this book had so many of my favorite Regency romance staples. Like elopement after being compromised in the library and the rake who falls head over heels in love with the wallflower.

    I loved that Harriet was a lexicographer who had a passion for vulgar words. Her earnest and innocent curiosity about these words made for some hilarious moments that made poor Alexander blush.

    I despise OW drama and I found it very refreshing if not completely unbelievable that Guiliana was clearly playing matchmaker.

    I can appreciate the grovelling and Alexander’s grand gesture at the end of the book but I still wish there had been one or two more realisations made.

    While this book definitely ends in an HEA, with the MCs happily in love and together I can’t help but wish there had been a bit more. I wanted an epilogue for them and I also wanted a little more set up guiding us towards what I hope will be a second book in this series. I’d love to see the sisters get their HEAs. As it stands the sisters, John, and the whole land situation were just left hanging and I want more!

    Thank you so much to Sophie and Slowburn for this ARC.

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  • 2 out of 5 stars
    All sex, no plot
    Reviewed in the United States on July 4, 2026
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    Hardly any plot, and no character development, but if you want all sex then this is the book for you.

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