Hi there,
My name is Tanya. I recently joined the community. Here's something that's not quite standard. :)
I have a story that's going to unravel soon, but check my journal:
http://tanyastory.livejournal.com
There's a question that i would like people to answer.
Enjoy.
Tanya

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Hi! I'm Julie, I'm 23 and from Southern California.

I love doing just about everything artsy/crafty! I love to sew, crochet, make jewelry, etc.. I spend most of my free time making things for sale, on comission, or just for myself. I love music! I listen to mostly punk, alternative, ska, & emo. AFI & Rise Agaisnt are my fave bands right now. I have a huge toy collection. It's mostly My Little Ponies and other 80's stuff. Whenever I can get away, I love to go snowboarding! I LOVE animals! I have four White's Tree Frogs, a black bear hamster, and two crazy dogs. I went to school and got a degree in "Mulitmedia & Web Design". But I completely love Photoshop so I sorta fell into a job doing digital photo retouching which I really love doing!

I love reading journals and making friends on here so if we have anything in common feel free to add me & I'll add you back! :D

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Breast Cancer Awareness!
CLICK for my once yearly very important very informative up to date post!!

Current Mood: hopeful

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I am not new to LJ but looking for some interesting friends who comment at least on occasion. I know we all lead busy lives.

*My name is Melissa and I am 22 years old

*I live with my boyfriend, Eric, so he is often talked about in my entries

*I am a third year Psych student

*I am very close to my 20-year old sister who is a lesbian and living with her girlfriend one street from my boyfriend and I

*I am always online...so you can catch me on AIM, MSN, or Yahoo. I always like to get to know my LJ friends

More info is on my user info page...just add me. I will add you back :)

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Whoring, Once Again
I'm Melissa...I'm a 21-year old college student. I am from St. Louis, MO. Here are my stats, I like to think I keep up with commenting fairly well. I post often...so please just add me :)


Date created: 2005-02-01 16:28:56
Date updated: 2005-03-31 07:05:02, 1 minute ago
Journal entries: 85
Comments: Posted: 166 - Received: 182

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help!

I feel like a complete hypocrite. My life and perspective changes daily so bare with me, please. To start off I do not like that my boyfriend talks to his ex! It makes me so mad but the thing is, he'll never admit that he does; until I become the jealous gf and check his phone, find out that he did and then he pony's up and gives me lame reasons as to why. So needless to say he hides the fact that they talk. He turns off his phone alot when he's with me or talks to her during the day when he's at work and then trys to remember to delete the evidence! Why they talk I don't know, I would kill to know but he won't say. But I'm also not the kind of girl to tell him that he can't talk to her. I don't like it, but I will never tell him that he can't. All I want is to honestly know why they talk and what about! I know that is such a gf thing to say but it honestly tears me up thinking about all of the scenarios that could be going on, it could be something but it could be nothing; either way I don't know the difference if he lies! So that leads me to my current delema! My ex has been texting me as of late! I know in my previous post I stated that he was and then he stopped, well as of last night he is again. He sent me a text last night saying, this is word for word: "hi im sorry last text was so brief, ive been really bust with work, it's fun. im glad you are doing so well, you sound happy. i hope things are great with your family as well. i miss talking to u, and i miss u". I don't know how to respond. Should I respond? I told Jeremy 2 years ago that if he ever needed me that I would always be here for him, I care about him alot and I'm so glad that he's happy and keeping himself busy. I would love to have him in my life, not romantically but as a close friend. I know Chuck would never consider it, he doesn't have girls as friends and would never allow me to have guy friends let alone an ex. I hate that Chuck talks to his ex I feel like a complete hypocrite that I would even consider doing the same thing! I always told him that I would never talk to any of my ex's and that I didn't understand why he would talk to her, however that was when I hadn't heard from Jer in 2 years and didn't think that I ever would, pretty convienent. I dont know what to do. I don't want to blow Jer off and hurt him, but I also don't want to lead him on. I don't want to be a hypocrite and say that Chuck can't but I can because it's innocent. I'm confused. I don't want to turn this into a situation where whenever I find out that Chuck has spoken with his ex I go and text Jer, it's not like that and I don't want to turn it into that. I'm rambling but I have so much going on in my head. It seems like such a simple situation but it's more than that. Any help would be more than appreciated!

Current Mood: confused

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Girlfriends <3
People come into your life for a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime. When

you know which one it is for a person, you will know what to do for that

person.





When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need

you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to

provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally,

or spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend, and they are! They are there

for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your

part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to

bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk

away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must

realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work

is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered, and now it is time to

move on.





Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come

to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make

you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually

give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only

for a season.





LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build

upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept

the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all

other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind

but friendship is clairvoyant.

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anyone in spokane?? 18-f-very sweet. but u can find out for yourself. not to sound concieted. but not too bad lookin neither ;)

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hey everyone. my name is shere. i live in spokane and go to EWU. im 19..anyone wanna get to know me or get on my friends list, leave ur LJ name here....

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I am having problems with my boyfriend's depression( Read more...Collapse )
I guess I am really just looking for some sound advice. I don’t want to be told to move on as that just is not an option for me. But how long should I wait? Am I crossing lines if I call his friend and let him know I’m concerned? Where should I go with this? I have never been one to stick around in a relationship when it got tough, but I am at an extreme loss as I am completely in love with this guy.

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so it's over. i don't know how it got so messed up. i've been with my 20 y/o boyfriend for 10 months. and about 6 months ago i realized he is soooo not for me. but he was so in love with me i couldn't bear to break his heart, so i decided to stay with him until his 21st b-day in the end of october. when i had broken up with him last may because my dad died in a car accident and i was devastated and needed space, i got drunk a couple times and ended up messing around with another guy. i needed someone strong i could cry to, and my boyfriend was not that guy. instead he would come over and cry on my shoulder because he was so hurt i broke it off. anyway, i still begrudge him for that, and it was easier to get back together with him than to listen to the guilt trip. he also threatened to go mental because he couldn't live without me. so for the past few months i was just waiting to break up, and i met someone else who i'm just friends with, but it could be more. my boyfriend found out about this and decided to hack into my livejournal and read it. he read about the other guy last may, and found out i might have feelings for this new guy. he made copies of my entries and showed all of his family and mine. now he's so hurt and mad and if he had minded his own business and stayed out of my thoughts, we would've ended on somewhat of a good note. but i learned my lesson...the moment i feel it's not working out, it would be in my best interest, and the guys to break it off immediatley no matter how guilty i may feel. i was just prolonging the pain. so girls...my advice is to be true to yourself!!! i wasted the last 6 months of my life on pity, please learn from my mistake!

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October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month!!

PLEASE take a moment of your time to click HERE!

Together we can make a difference!!

I am posting this in this community because I consider it to be relevant or maybe even only semi-relevant. If you have a problem with that, please contact me and be respectful. Tell me why I should delete it. Angry notes only make you seem bitchy and insensitive and have absolutely no effect on me. Let's all get along, okay? If I overlook some rule that bans this kind of post, it wasn't intentional. One more thing, although I think this is pretty obvious, this is cross posted.

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a little update...the 20 y/o and i have been together for 9 months now, and it's been a little too long. i've learned, actually validated the fact it's very hard for a relationship to last when there's an age difference like this. it was really fun, and still kinda is, but since i'm heading out of my 20's and he's just heading in, we want different things at different times. i'd like to start thinking about settling down, but why should he? see where i'm going with this? the age difference is deffinetly causing problems. someone once told me you should only be in a relationship as long as it's fun (unless you're completely sure you'd walk through fire for this man), and when it stops being fun, end it before it gets ugly and you lose someone you care about totally. well that's fine, but what about when you realize it's over, but the other person refuses to give up because he doesn't have the knowledge or experience to be able to accept it when it's over? bottom line...break-ups suck, and someone always gets hurt. that's why they call 'em break-ups...hearts break up into pieces.

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hey girls-
i just joined because i need a place where i can vent and get advice. sometimes i get so frusterated being the one who is the advice-giver, because i can't seem to do shit for my own life. here's a little bio:
i'm 26, working on divorcing my husband that i was with since 16. about 2 months after i left the abusive bastard, i hooked up with my all-time biggest highschool crush and we lasted for about a year and a half. he broke my heart so bad back in august. for 4 months i went on a drinking binder while still trying to be a mom to my 6 y/o son. needless to say, i was a wreck and i was wrecking the lives of the people i loved. i can't believe i fell so hard and i didn't even see the breakup coming, and not to mention the fact that i was replaced before it was completely over...anyway...so now i'm with a 20 y/o who treats me with so much respect and is so wondeful, he is the first guy i have ever trusted 100%. we've been together 3 months, and believe me, it was never intended to end up this way. he's everything i've ever prayed for, and likewise for him. that's what's so scary, it's too perfect. it's all so effortless, it just flows and falls into place. so i figure there's one of two things going on here...either it's too good to be true or maybe, oh my god, it could be the real thing. i refuse to be hurt again like i was, and eventhough he's really happy with me, he is only 20!! and though he's extremely mature for his age, it just seems inevitable that it won't last, so why should i fully emerse my heart? uuugghh, help!

-H

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yes way

I think I have a real bad controling behavior!!! It's getting out of control, I hate having issues

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HIII!!!! happy new years everybody! cheeerrs!!

feel free to add me or to leave comments on my journal

Current Mood: cheerful

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Hey! I'm a new Avon/ Mark Rep. and I'm really excited. I am in Westminster, MD but I can take orders from anyone outside of the area also! I can also sign people up who want to become Reps! This is so exciting! My name is Autumn.. I'm 19, and a sophmore in college. If anyone is interested in buying or selling Avon or Mark products, E-mail me at Actresluv77@hotmail.com, or IM me at Autumndreams77

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This is shaping up to be a very long week. Working 9 AM to 10 PM every day...This week has already almost given me an ulcer and it's only Tuesday! Does anyone know the symptoms of Mono because I think I might have it? I just really need a friend and a big hug right now. Just a hug.

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Hey all, I'm new.
Check out my journal, or userinfo etc and add me if you like..


♥- Autumn Nicole

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