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Hello from Russia

Please help me to gain ipod at a contest. They want people from other country to join a social community like FaceBook. If it's not difficult for you - please help!

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i have no clue what to get my boyfriend for christmas.
i had this idea. i think it's cute.
i was going to get a deck of cards and make a
"52 reasons why i love you (a subset of a much larger list..)" book.
but i want to do something else, too.
an actual present.
also, i want to give these to him in a romantic way.
i'm going to his mom's house with him, and we'll be there all day.
what can i do?
help.

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I usually post about my ED but right now I suppose I'm more caught up in the weight of my heart. I met this guy 3 years ago but we began dating around the 4th of July. We started out be really really good friends. I believe we sometimes see someone and want there to be a connection so badly that we sort of make it happen but tell ourselves it was natural. This guy (we'll call him Tom)is a bit older than me and wasn't my ideal kind of guy at first but he became my total buddy. Our relationship was based on trust and respect and on a smaller level still is. Though at the begining I did notice that he only had one friend (besides me)that consisted of 95% of his social life and it had probably been that way for a while. In the back of my mind I kept wondering if the way he at times seemed to be...I guess obsessed it to strong of a word but I would wonder if I was mostly a ticket out of his loneliness but how could I find that out for sure? Anyways about 2 months later he became more comfortable in letting his temper tantrums/way to gain control show. When he would do something I disagreed with and I would say it would try to always get really mad at any tiny thing I disagreed with and try to intimidate me into biting my tongue when I felt he wasn't treating me right or I disagreed. He does this every time we are together. Sometimes he'll drag it out but it seems when he has something to gain than he cuts it short.Though he shows that he has a lot of love for me. I know your probably thinking yeah you just want to believe that but I could tell that he wasn't faking how strongly he felt towards me by the people closest to him. If he really cherishes me why the tantrums that pulls us apart? How can someone do both to someone? Is it b/c he knows I'll keep coming back? Which I think is a strong possibility but if that is the case I still don't get it. I was curious what other people thought about the situation.

Dear unexperts, I have a job interview coming up. Any ideas on what I should wear?

O.K. Unexperts I'm going to court for a speeding ticket next week. Any advice, or should I thow myself on the mercy of the court.

Soon there will be more than 18 candles on my cake. I don't want to grow up. You? What are your reasons for not wanting to grow up?

Just curious: )

"I like nonsense, it wakes up the brain cells. Fantasy is a necessary ingredient in living, it's a way of looking at life through the wrong end of a telescope. Which is what I do, and that enables you to laugh at life's realities."
-Theodore Geisel

Come join in the nonsense! This community warmly welcomes Dr. Seuss fans of all levels and interests.

the_seuss

I figure in order to make this somewhat relevant, here's my question:
How could I become more Seuss-like?;)

Dear Unexperts,
I belong to this awesome online community where people would post questions and other people would respond. Now it seems like the community has died. What should I do?

It seems as though I have been neglecting this community. While things have been doing wonderfully without me and with the help of my other two maintainers and all the members, I have decided to "come back" and try to spruce things up a bit, get a few more members, and become a bit more active. As such, you'll probably see the look of this journal change just a bit. The content, of course, will be about the same. Feel free to leave any comments, suggestions, etc with me.:)

-Jenny