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Saturday, May 23rd, 2026 07:17 pm
I've been working my way through the entire "The West Wing."  I've watched (most of) it before, but it's been a while and I'm some years older (and perhaps wiser) so I purchased a new Roku streaming unit for myself and have spent some time watching TV shows.  At the very top of my list was "The West Wing" as it's easily my favorite show of all.  The re-watch, which I completed Friday, did not disappoint.  Oh, there were a few episodes I could have skipped (but did not) and a few I did not remember seeing earlier.  I recommend the series and I'd suggest taking your time to go through it, as I did.  There were 154 episodes over seven seasons from September 22, 1999, to May 14, 2006. 

The "Roku device" as I call it has offered me a lot of things to watch.  I have not spent too much time with it except for "The West Wing" and some Major League Baseball (which I recommend to get one's mind off any number of things).    

Since both Elusive M and I have had some health issues going on, we've slowed down a bit recently, but hope not to be permanently slowed down.  I spend a lot of time with SiriusXM on Alexa-based audio devices around the house and most of that suits me just fine.  

Also this week, M's nephew graduated high school.  Boy, has he grown.  Boy, does he have some musical talent.  He's off to college next year, but first will be traveling all summer with The Crossmen Drum and Bugle Corps.  Good luck to them!

Earlier this month was my birthday.  They're happening more quickly now -- imagine that.  
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Monday, March 23rd, 2026 03:23 pm
I've started writing my own viewpoint on the loss of CBS Radio News, but haven't gotten very far.  The post below is from Jim Bartlett, another former radio guy, who says much of it in a way that I like, and maybe youwill too.

The Last Roundup
On March 23, 2026 By jb


It made waves within the broadcasting industry late last week, but I don’t know if it’s broken though everywhere yet: CBS News has decided to shut down its radio service effective in May. Editor-in-chief Bari Weiss issued a memo claiming that attempts were made to save the service even before she came aboard last winter, but it was all for naught.

Is that true? It could be, I suppose, although if Paramount Global were serious about preserving anything about CBS News, it wouldn’t have hired Weiss to begin with. She isn’t qualified to lead such an organization. Bari Weiss is a blogger, with less broadcast journalism experience than I have. (I ripped copy from the AP wires, called the local sheriff’s departments for their overnight reports, and assembled and delivered actual newscasts, which is more than she’s ever done. Which Paramount may see as a feature, not a bug.) If, in addition to Trumpifying CBS News, Paramount Global wanted simply to lessen the amount of information available to Americans, they’d do exactly what they did with CBS Radio.

CBS Radio was more than just the radio arm of CBS: it was the inventor of broadcast journalism. The first CBS World News Roundup aired in March 1938, in response to Germany’s threatened annexation of Austria, anchored by Robert Trout and featuring reports via shortwave from correspondents in Europe including Edward R. Murrow and William Shirer. Roundup has continued to air weekday mornings at 7AM Central; an evening edition, which is often considered to have been born after the Pearl Harbor attack on December 7, 1941, aired for the last time last December. Initial reports about the shutdown last week indicated that it’s not clear what will become of the vast CBS audio archive. If we lived in rational times, it would be donated to a museum or university, but today it’s just as likely that the whole damn works will end up in a landfill.

CBS Radio was a large part of my life as listener. Decades ago, as a young radio jock working oddball shifts, I often did not want to hear music on my way to and from work. So I often listened to WBBM, the all-news station from Chicago, which was at the time owned and operated by CBS. (CBS spun off its radio stations to Audacy in 2017 but continued to operate the radio news service.) The anchors and reporters on WBBM and CBS became as familiar to me as the Top 40 personalities I’d grown up with. I’ve written before how during the summer I worked the rock-and-roll night shift, I would listen to WBBM overnight anchor Millard Hansen (a legendary personality in his own right) on my way home. I could tell what time it was by what was playing on the radio during the midnight hour, and often where I was on the highway, so precise was the station’s schedule. The CBS top-of-the-hour news sounder became as familiar as the weather.

Richard C. Hottelet was the last working member of the “Murrow Boys,” the reporters hired to cover World War II for CBS by Ed Murrow. He filed the first eyewitness reports from Omaha Beach on D-Day, and he worked for CBS until 1985. (He died in 2014 at the age of 97). For many years, he anchored the noon Eastern time CBS radio newscast. A friend of mine tells a story about being at his station’s control board one day for Hottelet’s newscast when the CBS sounder sounded … and then nothing. Just silence. “I was torn,” my friend said, “between putting something else on the air myself and wanting to hear what would happen next.” As it turned out, Hottelet was only a few seconds late, but even that was unusual for the well-oiled machine that was CBS Radio News in its heyday.

It has been many, many years since I would routinely turn on the radio at the top of the hour to catch up with CBS News. The big wheel has rolled, and we have different ways of getting information now, and different priorities. But as an old radio guy who believes in the medium’s service responsibility, I find the death of CBS Radio News a hard thing to take. Radio stations by the thousands have abdicated that service responsibility, but something like 700 stations around the country have continued to meet it with the help of CBS Radio. This week they’re left scrambling to figure out what to do now, and some will likely decide it no longer matters to do anything at all.

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Monday, October 20th, 2025 02:24 pm
M received a text alert from work this weekend.  It was addressed specifically to him, regarding some data system that was misbehaving.  As per regulations, M, who represents the management side, contacted a partner on the technical side and they discussed what might be going on.  Neither could quite figure it out but they agreed to track down the person who had issued the alert.

M got there first.  "Hello (Alert Issuing Person) this is M.  Can you tell me more about the problem?"
AIP:  "Oh hi, M.  I couldn't reach the person who is in charge of this so I called you, since you're in the staff directory and you have the same name as that person."

Wait, what?  So John Doe is unavailable, but that's okay, I'll simply contact another person also named John Doe in this organization of thousands around the world, and maybe he can help.

This is so beyond M's and my life experiences that we are still shaking our heads.

 

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Sunday, July 20th, 2025 05:33 pm
Months ago, I saw a trailer for the then-upcoming Superman movie.  It included Krypto, Superman's pet dog, which had been a regular character in the comic books of my youth.  At that moment, I told myself "I will see that movie!"  

(MINOR SPOILERS AHEAD)

I did not know at the time that every bit (pun intended) of Krypto was CGI.  He was based upon the director's own dog, and the actors (doing what actors do) were pretending a dog was in their scenes.  Nor was the movie Krypto a spittin' image of the comic book Krypto.  It wouldn't have mattered.  Putting a dog back into Superman was just what it needed.  (among other things)

Viewing movies in theaters used to be the only way to see a movie, but times have changed  and there are lots of ways to watch at home,and many reasons to watch movies at home.  Most important is that the popcorn is always fresh at home!  And right up there is controlling the environment from temperature to ambient sound (i.e., people talking).  Yeah, it can be fun to be in a large room full of others, all enjoying the same entertainment, but it can be a challenge, especially to an introvert.

Still...some movies are meant for BIG screens, and having been a Superman fan (in all incarnations) all my life, I was looking forward to the current movie.  So we bit the bullet, bought the pricey tickets, even opted for IMAX, and went to a theater to see it.  This is the first movie we've seen in a theater in several years and the first stsrt-to-finish movie we've stayed in our seats for.  Yes, we're THOSE people, the ones who stay through the credits, especially if the music is good or there's talk of a good extra scene after the credits.

Speaking of the music.  I am a big fan of John Williams; his movie music is among my favorites, and the 1970s Superman movie theme is my personal Williams favorite piece.  So.  When I heard he would not be doing the music for this movie, I was a bit concerned, but I reasoned that time marches on, Mr. Williams is in his 90s, and I should have an open mind.  I was more than pleased that the music arrangers for this movie chose to use a lot of themes on Williams' previous Superman music, as well as new stuff.  Most of the music used was just fine, some actually great.  I keep repeating to myself "I am not their target audience..."

Some of the scenes were filmed in Ohio, including the former Cincinnati train station with architecture I love (recognized it immediately) and that felt special to me.  We weren't quite sure where the Smallville scenes were filmed, especially considering the (almost comical) southern accents representing Smallville (ahem) KANSAS. 

Director James Gunn, who also wrote the film, chose to tweak the Superman origin and narrative.  Not that others have not done this, and I understand some of these things need to be kept fresh.  There were characters added, characters changed.  We had a feeling that a lot of film landed on the cutting room floor, because several actors showed up with little to do and just made for a bloated cast.  Did they have scenes cut?  Perhaps we'll find out when the "Director's Cut" shows up. 

We noted that some shots appeared to be made for 3-D and that got annoying as we were not watching a 3-D version.  It pulled the focus (at least for me) and pulled me out of the action, no doubt that somebody or some thing was flying out off the screen in the 3-D version.  We've tried 3-D and it doesn't make us happier.  The jury is still out whether the IMAX upcharge was worth it -- there was a whole lot of screen that wasn't needed much of the time.  (Maybe that's what years of watching on the home screen does to us.)

Call me cynical or out of touch of just an old man, but much of Superman flying just didn't give me a "wow" factor.  Maybe it was because he was my first Superman, but even today, watching old 1950s "The Adventures of Superman" TV shots of George Reeves as Superman flying are just as thrilling as many of the shots in this film.  No, not as sharp and sometimes not even in color, but just as inspiring.

Best actor in the film?  Rachel Brosnahan, who played Lois Lane.  She seemed to escalate the art of acting in many of her scenes while many others, particularly the bad guys, were more into "chewing scenery" than acting. 

Worst thing about the film?  Nobody who knows me well will be surprised when I say, TURN DOWN THE SOUND LEVEL!  I imagined a volume control and mute button in my hand.  I wonder why they haven't invented such a device where everyone can control their own volume levels?  Oh yeah, it's called watching at home.  The sound levels go hand in hand with too many battle scenes (remember again, not written for my age group) and not enough character development (remember again, these are comic book characters!)

Overall did I like it?  Yes!  The film was fun and I recommend it.  Unfortunately, the popcorn at the theater we visited was not all that great.  Need some of that good at-home popcorn.
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Saturday, July 12th, 2025 04:33 pm
I received a well-meaning message via Facebook Messenger (NOT my favorite form of communication).  The sender meant well and we've known each other for decades, but there were so many annoyances in the message that I just had to let off some steam (here) about it.

First of all, yes, I know, mistakes are human and heaven (or the location of your choice) knows I make plenty.  But that message clearly bothered me.  A time period referred to in the message was incorrect.  The grammar in the message was messy.  And the thing that really bothered me -- which could make many if not most readers here wonder what is WRONG with me -- was a reference that there will be cake at an upcoming event.  As if cake, in any way, shape, or form, would on its own bring me, an introvert, to anything.  Pie, perhaps, but cake, never!

I do not intend to do anything further about the message; having written has taken the edge off;

Please return to your normal programming, no doubt already in progress.


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Thursday, June 19th, 2025 08:23 pm
There are too many people with "A" first names in this story so I'm going to change my convention this time and use real first names.

I have been reading about Adam for years. Adam is a young man (do I sound particularly old using that term?) who is the Significant Other to Anne, who is a young woman who is the daughter of Anita, who is a long-time friend and one who is a kindred spirit of mine.

I'm one of the many people around the world who have befriended Anne and have watched her grow and become a talented person in many ways, someone we are proud to know. For a while, Anne was a world traveler in her business life, affording her the breadth of experiences that most of us can only dream about. She eventually landed in the UK and continued her studies there. She and Adam found each other and live in the UK.

They have been making plans to move to the US for various reasons. I recently found out they are not doing so -- not for the time being and likely not for the next four years at least. I had been looking forward to seeing Anne again and finally meeting Adam. I had hoped to attend their wedding in the US.

But Adam is afraid to come to the US as a person from another country. And from some of the crazy news stories that have flowed since the US presidential election, I can't blame him. He's worried he'd be deported to some prison somewhere for doing...nothing. Just for being an immigrant. Most of the time, that would be out of the question, but these days? Again, I can't blame him.

I have watched all the terrible, backwards, ignorant decisions being made by the current US administration. I watch them systematically change (for the worse) what I've known to be good rules into very bad rules. Many of those decisions have annoyed me, some have worried me, but this issue that bothers a person I kinda, sorta know, to the point he's afraid to come here, is ludicrous. Among a few other issues, this is one that's helped tip the scales for me.

Yes, many MANY other recent decisions (and others said to be coming soon) also are quite troubling. I've tried to see the other side but rarely can anymore. I've watched many people and things I love as they have been changed, perhaps forever. And now Adam -- the friend I've not yet met -- has chosen, for his personal safety, to delay our meeting, possibly forever.

Perhaps this sounds minor to you, compared to wars and incarceration and reductions of freedoms and fewer government programs and loss of jobs and more. Perhaps it is. But for me, it's a clarifying moment.
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Monday, May 26th, 2025 03:03 pm
Friends of our late scribe Jay Lake will remember his frequent reference to "having spoons left" and "running out of spoons" particularly in his last years.  I can't recall the source, but (in my words) it's referring to one starting a day with so many "spoons" (amounts of energy) and various tasks taking so many "spoons" to do, resulting in one running out of energy.  (Again, that's my way of describing it.)

I found that description to be excellent both in terms of the analogy and how I feel about many things/days.

Saturday was one of those "spoon depletion days" for me.  The day's main event was a Celebration of Life for Warren, a long-time friend who died in April.  He had been slipping away for some time and, to many, his passing was a goodness.  I am in that camp -- we were given ample time to express to him how much he meant to us, and his dying was not a shock.  (Also, he was 86, so it had been a good, long life.)

The Celebration of Life was held at a church.  I was not involved in planning it, but Warren had specifically asked any event NOT to be held at a religious location.  One of the three primary speakers was a retired minister who, in my opinion, hovered right on the line between religious and not, while Warren had asked NOT to have a religious service.  (I suspect her words were offered and accepted because of her past connections with Warren but still it made me a bit uncomfortable.)

There was a very nice musical moment in the service where a quartet from Omaha's LGBTQ mixed chorus performed.  I had sung the piece in the chorus years ago so it was especially moving to me.  I wish they would have sung a bit more and I really wish more members of the chorus -- of which Warren's husband was a former member -- would have attended. 

The Ceremony of Life, and particularly the fellowship time afterwards, totally drained me.  The noise level during fellowship and the despicable large round tables where one is within earshot of only two people at a time made conversation impossible.  (It wasn't just me -- several others mentioned it.) 

The service itself was relatively brief -- many people attended but few spoke.  I was ready with some words if others spoke but so few did so that I chose not to.  Maybe that fed into itself, causing fewer people to talk.

I didn't realize how many spoons the event had taken out of me until I got home and had to rest a while.  Maybe I'm out of condition for public events, or maybe the nature of this event just took it out of me.

I shall continue to check on Warren's husband.  He seems okay and says he's doing okay, but I suspect he would appreciate continuing contacts. 
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Monday, April 28th, 2025 02:54 pm
New userpic/icon of Sophie (left, 3 months old) and Charlie (right, 3 years old) is here!  No way I can get them to lie quietly together to have a picture taken -- yet.
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Saturday, April 26th, 2025 08:45 pm
Sharp-eyed visitors may note that I've been using the same userpic/icon of two dogs for a very long time.  In fact, neither of those dogs (Mandy and Toby) are still with us, and have been gone for some time.  I just could not bring myself to delete those photos.  Now, I have reasons to do so.

You may ask, didn't we get a new dog a few years back?  Yes we did -- he is Charlie and just passed three years old in February.

And there's more dog news!  Earlier this week, the latest entry in our long line of dogs, Sophie, came to join our happy clan.  (Happy for the most part -- Charlie is still not totally certain he wanted or needed a "sister" -- very similar to what Mandy thought when Toby came to join her.)  Sophie is coming up on three *months* old...but, interestingly, she shares the same birth month and day as Charlie!

All of the above-mentioned dogs are and were Shetland Sheepdogs, or Shelties.  It's a breed that M was very fond of and I have since joined those who love Shelties.  Each of them has had a different personality, and currently Charlie and Sophie fit that description too (although Sophie is a bit young to know anything for certain).

I hope to get the userpic changed to the current dog residents sometime soon.  You see how quickly I move on such things, though, so don't hold your breath.
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Friday, April 18th, 2025 01:07 pm
My friend Warren died this week.  He was 86 -- a good run for anyone.  Unfortunately, he was more and more ill over the final few years.  His passing was not a surprise -- his husband kept anyone who asked up to date on the situation.  It was clearly downhill, especially recently.

When I moved back to the Omaha area in the early 80s, I was one of a small group who started an LGBTQ chorus.  (It's since grown into a major arts force in the area, I'm pleased to say.  Took a while, here in red-state Nebraska, but it's become pretty successful.)  Shortly after the chorus started, Warren's partner Roger joined the chorus as a singer.  Roger has a fine singing voice and happened to be next to me in the tenor section.  We got along and became friends, and over time I met his then-partner, now-husband Warren.

Some years later, when I was in a fulfilling job under maniacal management, I was chatting with Warren about it.  Warren owned a small marketing company that had previously taken over a product which was already successful, and he was in a position to expand and add staff.  Knowing I enjoyed doing what he needed to have done, and also knowing I was at the ends of my wits with the honchos at my present job, he offered me a job and I took it.  That's the first life-changing event Warren handed me, but not the only one.

A few years later, with his firm still growing, Warren needed some technical expertise for an in-house computer system.  A friend of his recommended someone who was working at the Red Cross.  Warren interviewed that person and hired him.  Shortly thereafter, I met that person...who I have now been partnered with for over 30 years and married to for nearly 12 years.  Yes, Warren introduced me to M.  That made Warren, without a doubt, one of the most influential people in my life.

Aside from those life-altering events, Warren was a wise businessman and a good friend.  He and I were not entirely alike -- for one thing, he liked to change vehicles fairly regularly and I tend to hold onto my cars for a very long time.  His life story is interesting (he was once a pastor yet had little use for religion now), and he was once married and had two children, though he's now been with Roger for 50 (!) years.

I, along with many others, will miss Warren.  But I, along with others, have many memories of him still with me.
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Tuesday, April 1st, 2025 05:15 pm
Richard Chamberlain, star of "Dr. Kildare" on TV, died recently and has been celebrated by many.  The tributes remind me how much I enjoyed the Kildare theme song, "Three Stars Will Shine Tonight."

In 1962 Chamberlain himself sang a version of the song and it got some radio play, but that's not the version I'm speaking about.  The one I preferred was on the show itself. 

I was rather young when the show was on, but -- listening to the theme again today -- I remembered it almost note for note.  I guess I've always been that way about TV themes.  Many have been favorite songs of mine, whether they became hits or not.  A few decades ago, when TV themes started going out of style, I mourned that deeply.  Themes help bring a lot to a show.  Yes, eliminating the theme is a way for a network to stick a few more commercials into that time slot.  But I'd rather hear the theme!  (Don't get me started about when they talk over the theme.)

The Kildare theme was composed by Jerry Goldsmith.  Never heard of him, you say?  Well, you've likely heard of some of the themes he's composed.  Besides Kildare, they include "The Man from U.N.C.L.E.," "Barnaby Jones," "The Waltons," "Gunsmoke," and "Twilight Zone."  Go ahead, try to get your favorite(s) out of your head now.

I have other, non-Goldsmith, favorite themes, such as "Bonanza" and "The West Wing," but for sheer longevity, I think Kildare is the oldest TV theme I remember well and still enjoy.  How about you?

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Sunday, November 24th, 2024 04:05 pm
In 2000, M and I traveled to New Orleans as part of a business trip by the company M worked for.  At the time, M's friend and co-worker Jay Lake was employed at the same company so also joined the trip.  This was the first time Jay and I met in person.  M had described me as "a writer" to Jay, and of course Jay was curious.  Unfortunately for Jay, M's definition of "a writer" wasn't quite what Jay was expecting.  Nonetheless, Jay and I became friends.

Many things transpired during that trip, but those are not the purpose of this post.  At the airport as we were leaving to return home, I was scanning the bookstore for something to read on the way home.  I asked Jay if he might suggest something.  (Silly of me to presume he wouldn't.)  He asked a few questions about my interests, what I like to read, and quickly went over and selected a book for me.  It was the paperback of "Wicked: The Life and Times of the Wicked Witch of the West," originally published in 1995 and written by Gregory Maguire.  I read the synopsis -- and immediately thought two things: (1) HOW did Jay figure out so quickly what would be a good book for me and (2) OH BOY, this could be fun to read.

I thanked Jay.  M and I went to our gate and Jay to his.  We boarded our plane, and I immediately started reading.  Within a few pages, I thought to myself, "this is not necessarily going to be fun; it will be a difficult read."  Lots of words I did not know (or were made up by the author) and lots of long sentences.  This was not a "Wizard of Oz" sequel; it was a major challenge!  I was up to the task but would have to concentrate.  The book was definitely one of the toughest reads for me since college. I finished it, but not during that flight.  It took me nearly a month of stop and go reading to get through it!

I have not re-read "Wicked" since then, but the memories that stick with me are: yes, it was a tough read.  Yes, it was somewhat up my alley, and ohmygosh, this was a dark novel.  I thought about it a lot afterwards (which, for me, means it was impactful).  I also mispronounced some main characters' names in my head as I read (according to how they were pronounced in later incarnations of the story). 

I contacted Jay and shared I had some challenges reading it.  He was not particularly surprised since, as he put it, I was not a regular reader of speculative fiction and it can be a difficult read for those not accustomed to it.  .  As I later read some of Jay's own novels (which can have their own challenges to be read) I often thought back to "Wicked."

Later, I read that "Wicked" was being adapted into a stage musical, and shared that with Jay.  Here's our exact first email exchange about it:

      > Did M pass along the Internet story I saw that "Wicked" is being considered for a musical?

      Oh Lord, no. Um...

(Jay's later responses were part astounded and part profane.  He was not amused with the thought of such a thing.)  I was intrigued about this potential new musical, but only to a point -- I had been disappointed in other shows that had come out, based on "The Wizard of Oz."  Why would I think this one, based on such a dark novel, would be any good. 

Time passed, and the stage musical "Wicked" premiered in 2003 to much glitz and many awards.  I heard some of the music and was pleased and interested.  I bought the cast album CD.  In 2006, a friend and I traveled from our respective homes in Omaha and Columbus to Chicago to experience the show in person.  Wow, it instantly became one of my favorite shows (and if you know me, you know it usually takes a while for something to become a favorite of mine).  Most interesting, very little of the musical was anywhere near as dark as the book, and many of its songs are downright joyful. 

M and I have seen "Wicked" on stage three (I think) times since then, all in Omaha.  Seeing a show again means for me the opportunity to focus on different things -- such as orchestration one time, lighting and set one time, and special effects (if appropriate).  And always there's the opportunity to hear its glorious music live and in person again.

Now, in 2024, the movie version of "Wicked" has just come out.  I have not yet seen it but am wary because of a long history of the movie not being as good (for me) as the stage presentation.  I will see the movie eventually (and, if you haven't heard, the full musical has been broken into two parts, the first released this year and the second scheduled for 2025.  Yes, otherwise the movie would be very long, but it seems silly since the stage version has been out so long.  I'm sure it's to make more money).  Still, the reviews I've seen seem to indicate the songs are there (at least in the first part) so I'm not TOO worried.

The burning question is, What would Jay think of all this?  Sadly, Jay died in 2014 so we'll never know, but based on his initial reaction about the novel becoming a musical, it wouldn't be pretty.  (Just as I also wonder regularly What would Jay think? regarding today's world of politics.)

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Wednesday, October 2nd, 2024 06:10 pm
M and I just returned home from a 13-day road trip.  As I told a friend, this was not primarily a pleasure trip.

M's sister-in-law (and after some research, I discovered that also makes her MY sister-in-law) had traveled to Nevada earlier this year to visit her mother who lives there.  S.I.L. enjoys the (much) warmer and (much) drier weather in Nevada, and since that and visiting her mom make her feel good, these trips have become somewhat regular.

This trip did not turn out as S.I.L. had intended.  Some time after arriving in Nevada. she started having trouble breathing.  That got worse, which prompted an emergency room visit, which apparently got many Trained Professionals interested in just what caused the breathing difficulties, which caused a number of days in the hospital for S.I.L. 

Gary-doesn't-know-all-the-answers but what M and I learned was that it was a heart (!!!) problem and might require heart surgery.  Oh great, S.I.L. from Omaha was stuck in Nevada, away from her family and her regular doctors (but luckily near a hospital filled with good doctors and staff).  So, S.I.L.'s husband (M's brother) drove out there.  (By himself, almost without stopping.)  Then after testing and retesting and expert diagnoses and stuff, it was decided that S.I.L. needed a new heart valve and could not travel until she got one.  So, now, it would be a Big Operation in Nevada.  At that point. M and I started talking about going there ourselves to support everyone.

We drove, but not without stopping.  Several stops, quite the trip, and did I mention we took Charlie (the dog) along?  That made our not-very-large vehicle seem even smaller.  We managed. 

Before we left Omaha, however, first a dead battery and a tire blowout delayed our start by a day.  I saw that as a bad omen but M convinced me we really should keep trying.  (I'm still not sure he ever convinced Charlie it was a good idea, but for the most part Charlie was a good boy.  Did I mention Charlie in general wants to have nothing to do with cars or travel?)

We arrived two days before the surgery so S.I.L. wanted to celebrate (probably not the best word) by going out to dinner at a casino.  Personally, I thought we could have had soup at her mom's house or something laid back like that, but a big casino dinner it was.  I think S.I.L. was happy, her husband was happy that she was happy, M was happy they were happy, her mom was happy, and I observed all the codependency, knowing that I'm a practitioner myself quite a lot so was glad to see people happy. 

I do not do well at night because of my eyesight, so lots of flashing lights in the middle of an otherwise dark night are not great for me.  But this was not about me.  However, the place was also very noisy and I think most of our group did not appreciate that either.  Add to that, the restaurant was no smoking, but all that did was encourage people to smoke all the more just outside, while milling around outside, and to breathe out their last puffs inside the restaurant after their many, regular smoking visits outside.  Not nice.

At least dinner took S.I.L.'s mind off her impending issues that night, so that was good.  We enjoyed each others' company.  The next day was for many medical tests so M and I relaxed after the big drive.  The day after that was the surgery, which went well, and S.I.L. came through it fine.  From then until when we left to come home (and beyond) S.I.L. has been visibly better and better and says she feels better and better.  Thank goodness for that.

M and I did some sight seeing, and made a trip to a place I have heard way too much about for way too many years without personally trying...until last week.  That was In 'n Out Burger.  I am no longer an In 'n Out Burger virgin.  I had high expectations, but like some things, they didn't quite reach the altitudes I'd had hoped for.  I've had other quick service (aka "fast food") meals just as good or better, though I'll admit food is a matter of opinion and what I think is the "best" burger may not be what you think it is.  It wasn't BAD...it just didn't live up to all the hype.  Or perhaps Omaha and other places I've visited have enough of My Kind of Burgers so In 'n Out just didn't do it for me.  But at least I've tried it now. 

This is entirely too long so I'll end now but might revisit later to include a few more experiences (spoiler: another quick service burger joint that was better) and driving through the mountains.

As of today, S.I.L. is still doing fine.  We are recovering from the trip.
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Thursday, July 4th, 2024 01:50 pm
I was asked if I have a favorite part of riding trains.

Oh, yes!

When I was a child, we took the train regularly from Iowa to Missouri and back again.  The Iowa end was a fairly standard train station.  But the Missouri end was the magnificent Union Station in Kansas City;  Built for many trains with many tracks, many services, and space for many passengers.  When I was a child, it was still quite active.  We'd arrive at Union Station early, perhaps have a bite there, perhaps pick up something to read during the trip, and wait in the magnificent waiting room.  So much to see already.  We'd eventually be called to our train, and that involved going downstairs to the train shed and the many tracks, finding and getting aboard the train, and finding our seats.  Then...the anticipation.  Watching out the train window.  Where's the train next to us going?  Where's that train over there coming from?  Wait...are WE moving or is the train NEXT to us moving? 

Then the moment came.  Slowly, very slowly, our train started moving, past the adjacent trains, past baggage carts, past railroad workers and other passengers.  Eventually out from the train shed into the open air with sunlight and sky and Kansas City skyline and...we were off!

Today's analogy, most of the time, is when we take a train from Chicago.  The station there is one in the US still with much passenger service because it's a major transfer point on the east-west railroad.  So there's waiting upstairs (with all its drama), boarding and waiting on the train downstairs (with all its drama), and the excitement of the train finally starting to move (almost always on time, at least leaving Chicago). 

I have been known to go to Chicago by other means (car or plane) and then make it a point to take a train back home mainly to experience that favorite part for me of riding a train -- pulling out of a great railroad station.
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Thursday, July 4th, 2024 12:47 pm
As far back as I can remember, I've enjoyed eating.  I'd imagine that's true for most people, although I know of one person who claims not to enjoy eating.  I understand he has had many dental problems through life, which could have been a major cause of food disinterest.

When friends suggest going out, "going out" to me means going somewhere to dine.  Through life, especially into adulthood, I have picked up that "going out" can mean different things to others -- such as going to a show or club, or going to a movie, or going drinking.

Flash back to little Gary.  My parents were not big drinkers, just occasional.  I had no interest in trying alcohol underage and not much more interest when of age.  I had tasted wine at home and at religious ceremonies -- yawn -- had tasted beer -- yuck -- and I don't think I tasted mixed drinks until full adulthood.  The song "I Get a Kick Out of You" has a famous line: "I get no kick from champagne" and that describes me -- then, as now, the taste of alcohol and effects (during and after) do not give me any positive experiences whatsoever.  If in the right situation, I may try an alcoholic beverage, but it never is the driving force for me and I will go months without imbibing.

I suspect I may be missing some gene because a lot of people drink regularly and seem to enjoy it a great deal.  Perhaps I've never had enough to push me into some "magic zone" but what I've had did not at all encourage me to continue.  Some friends took us out for martinis once and M and I both tried several varieties and later agreed we would not need to ever taste that again.  Meanwhile, our friends, and zillions of others, enjoy martinis all the time.  (Nobody's right or wrong, it's just different tastes.)

I love tomatoes.  I used to drink a lot of tomato juice until a doctor recommended cutting back on sodium, of which there's a lot in tomato juice.  (Who knew?)  So at home I'd sometimes make a Bloody Mary, just without the alcohol, and that suited just fine.  As for tomatoes, I know plenty of people who do not like 'em -- I think to myself they don't know what they're missing, just as they probably think the same thing of me for not drinking alcohol very often.

I'm okay with water or tea (hot or cold) or sometimes juices or soft drinks depending on the food.  I sometimes think I'm missing out on some special experience because I don't pair some wine with a meal, but frankly I do not miss it.  Last time M and I had drinks were at the home of some friends who make their own wine.  It was interesting but I was more interested in their "famous" spaghetti sauce.

I get bombarded online by photos of great looking foods, but if I investigate, the accompanying text often refers to the beverages or that the place is a "Lounge" or "Bar and Grill" -- which, from experience, I know can have good food, but I'm afraid that must be aimed at a different clientele than we are. 

L'chaim!
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Thursday, May 16th, 2024 01:45 pm
I've been following a bit of the uproar over Wisconsin Public Radio (WPR) about to change a number of their statewide stations between music and news.  (If you're a Public Radio listener, as am I, some states maintain partially separate networks, one for music and one for news.  WPR has kinda sorta done so for a while, and for reasons not totally known to me -- I don't live there so I don't have the inside scoop -- they are rearranging what many stations across the state will be doing, effective next week.)

That is causing quite a scene in listener comments, even before they've heard the changes.  Okay, granted, many people do not like change.  As I've felt for most of my life, radio can be a person's best friend and for that best friend to change personality can be a shock to the system.

But I do not understand why all the people complaining cannot listen to their favorite station(s) over the Internet rather than (or in addition to) over the air radio, if necessary when the change occurs.  Admittedly, I am an outlier on this issue -- I spend most of my waking hours listening to radio, most of it not local, and most of it noncommercial.  Essentially, Public Radio from coast to coast, depending on the day and time.  I have several Amazon Echo devices throughout the house and/or hooked into our whole-house audio system, and I have computers around that can also pick up the Internet signals.  Yes, of course, that's much more than the average listener, but that's me.  Anyone can use a smart device/computer and listen to any Internet station if one has a signal. 

Does it always sound as good as a stereo FM radio or digital HD radio?  Nope, but in most cases it will do, and if one wants to go high-end (and has the resources to do so) it is attainable.  Will it work in the car?  For newer cars, almost always, but for older cars it can be a challenge.

It's just that so many of those comments -- particularly because the change doesn't happen until Monday -- come across as so hurt, so sad to be losing that "best friend."  I suspect WPR will do some tweaking, or better educating about how to use alternate ways to receive signals, or partner with some other media, or something.  Wisconsin (I think) is one of the nation's oldest Public Radio systems, if not THE oldest.  They haven't stuck around this long just to throw it all away at this point.
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Monday, April 29th, 2024 06:48 pm
(Note:  some of the text below comes from today's Marketplace newsletter.  I've bolded and italicized the borrowed parts.)

When I was young -- like pre-teen young -- I would accompany my parents on visits to warehouses and other various outlets that supplied our family store.  After a few such visits, the folks "looking out" for me knew how to handle me.  Easy!  Just put me at an unused desk with as big a business telephone as available, if possible, within earshot of the receptionist so I could associate her activities with the lights flashing on and off on the phone.  That, my friends, was heaven to this kid, and did much to form my impressions of what and where to work later in life.  (Mostly radio, with LOTS of flashing lights and phones involved.)

When I read today an article about the work/life balance being threatened by the impending end of business phone systems, I felt a special kind of sadness.  Though few kids my age cared much about wired desktop phones at that time, and probably none do today, **I** cared and still hold a fond place in my heart.  When I see a photo of an old-ish office, one of the first places my eyes go is to the phone.  Sorry, world, today's cell phone is no comparison. 

Let me quote a few things from the Marketplace article:

Juliet Peay can still visualize the massive desk phone at her first job out of college in 2016.  “It was one of those big, serious phones," she said. 

In subsequent jobs, Peay said, she found herself suddenly without that bulky piece of equipment.

Mobile devices are increasingly taking over in the business world, where the desk phone once reigned as the king of office communication.

"massive desk phone" ... "big, serious phones" ... "bulky piece of equipment" ... "the king of office communication" -- words that make my heart swell with gladness.  I miss them, and their absence is just another reason I'm glad to be away from the corporate world.

 

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Saturday, April 27th, 2024 07:30 am
The big tornadoes that were in the area on April 26 did not enter central Omaha -- they mostly stayed in the general areas of Lincoln (to the southwest), Gretna (to the west), various northern suburbs, and off to Iowa to the east.  (Though I quickly add central Omaha has historically been hit by tornadoes so we're not immune.)  M and I live in the west-central city; we and our property are okay.

But some work associates of M, scattered about the region, are not.  Some friends of mine from cnurch are not.  And, from the media, we know that many others were touched by the events of yesterday afternoon.

Those who know me well know I'm a weather-watcher.  We had multiple TVs on multiple stations yesterday (plus of course weather radios and various Internet sources and those helpful but oh-so-intrusive-if-you-already-know-what's-going-on phone apps that send LOUD tones, beeps, and (gaaah!) sirens in case you're not paying attention or are asleep.  The coverage was excellent in my opinion, though the (national) Weather Channel scooped our local weatherfolk more than once -- what was that about?

A friend who moved away sent me a text saying he was watching one of the Omaha TV stations streams on his phone.  Although the coverage was excellent, he missed the "flailing arms and oh woe is me" style of a former local meteorologist.  Never fear, I told my friend -- though the fellow is no longer on TV, he maintains a blog and still shares his unique style of "the sky is falling!" weathercasting. 

We've had a few mild weather years.  The events this week (which may continue over the weekend) have reminded M and me, and many others, that we are still in a part of "tornado alley."
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Monday, March 11th, 2024 05:34 pm
Some of my friends here might appreciate the particular comparisons in this poem.

“A Modern Dragon” (1930)
by Rowena Bennett

A train is a dragon that roars through the dark
He wriggles his tail as he sends up a spark.
He pierces the night with his one yellow eye,
And all the earth trembles when he rushes by.



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Friday, March 8th, 2024 08:42 pm
When I was young, my parents liked the music of the singers of what we today call The Great American Songbook.  I -- probably because kids are supposed to rebel -- stuck with the pop tunes of the day, from the Beach Boys to the Beatles, but including the occasional hanging-on pop songster because that's how radio was programmed back then -- a variety of music.

One of the holdover singers was Steve Lawrence.  I liked his stuff but had to be careful not to be too uncool because my parents loved* Steve's music along with his wife Eydie Gorme -- together and solo.  In fact, one of the first records I ever purchased was Lawrence's "Poor Little Rich Girl."  Not his biggest hit, but the timing was right for me.  (* I'm sure our family's Jewish heritage helped connect us to Lawrence.  But hey, he was a great singer, period.)

I spent way too much energy putting down the musicians loved by my parents, but over time, I came to appreciate all of them.  Today I have Sinatra CDs, lots of Big Band music, plus my grandparents' collection of 78s and early 45s (my parents never did collect records, so I made up for that).

As I said, from my earliest record purchases, Steve -- and later Eydie -- were included.  More of their recordings were added over time.  Near the end of my mother's life, she was visiting from out of town when a Steve and Eydie concert was scheduled in Omaha.  For whatever reason, we chose not to attend.  I regret to this day not taking Mom to that concert, because she would have enjoyed it so much and I would have enjoyed the memories even now.  (Not unlike when M and I neglected to attend a Simon & Garfunkel concert in Omaha.)

Yesterday, Steve Lawrence died.  (Eydie Gorme died in 2013.)  It's another moment of musical sadness for me.  Boy, do I appreciate their music now.  Thank goodness for recordings!